Is it possible? I actually remember getting in trouble as a child for “making us late.” You may too. What would have helped me then?
1. Clarify your expectation. I didn’t have the bigger picture of what the goal was. I didn’t know what time we needed to leave, what being ready looked like. I wasn’t part of the solution. I was sent to my room to ‘get ready’ and was expected to come out ready to go. Even as an adult, I don’t do that successfully all the time. Have you ever forgotten your check book, diaper bag, lunch, etc.? “Getting ready” is a skill that can be taught, step-by-step.
2. Teach the skill. Just making the statement “go get ready” doesn’t really tell what you want to have happen. Take the time (when not in a rush) to explain your expectations of what being ready includes and discuss how much time is needed. Make kids part of the solution and use their ideas too. Then they’ll be much more apt to try to make it work.
3. Make it visual. Use charts, lists, and pictures to help kids remember each thing they need to accomplish to ‘be ready.’ We do that as adults too. [Read more…] about 5 ways to help your child get out the door on time